Do you think my boyfriend still has feelings for his ex?

Do you think my boyfriend still has feelings for his ex?
My boyfriend dated a girl he met on a cruise. They separated once the cruise ended. My bf and I live in Ohio and him and his ex still talk on the phone like she'll call him and such. She does have a boyfriend tho. My boyfriend keeps telling me he's going to buy plane tickets and fly over to Arizona for a week to visit her and her family for her birthday. He saids her family loves him, and he might go to college in Arizona to "be close to her" Do you think he'd cheat on me when he's gone for a week with her? But he said she's just an amazing friend, and maybe he's just bein a good guy to visit her. like keeping in touch.. my boyfriend and i have been dating for almost a month but he has not said "i love you" he saids i love everything about you, and that he's happy with me, blessed to have me, and he wishes he would have met me sooner, he wants me to be his longest relationship and even mentioned marriage brieftly.. but its just this ex of his that makes me worried.. exspecially if he goes to college down in arizona






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From what your saying it sound obvious to me as a 28 year old guy that he likes her. That doesn't mean he doesn't like you too, it is entirely possible to like both. But if he is considering going to college to be closer to her which would mean further from you..uh..I think there is your answer right there. He is probably just a young, fickle dude, especially if he is thinking about packing up and moving for some chick that hooked up with while on a cruise for a few days. You both will probably end up with different people in the next few years. You will probably find someone you like even better. I know that is not a pleasant thought, but I am just telling you the likely scenario from what I have seen over and over again. Don't put too much stock in this particular relationship. Go have fun while you still can.





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Well if he says he loves you then his not going to cheat on you but then again it makes me think why does he want to go to arizona for college he could go there in ohio. I don't know i used to have a boyfriend a long time ago he used to tell me the same thing in i believed him and he ended up breaking up with me so i don't know what to tell you...if he really loves you and want to be with you in get married he wouldn't want to leave you or especially far away from you.






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Honey....re-read your question and think logically.....why are you even with this guy?? I cant believe he told you all of this! YES, he will cheat on you and YES he's planning on seeing her again and quite possibly just having you as his "local girlfriend".....he's taking you for a fool!! But I'm sorry honey, he met her on a cruise?? How long did that last, 1 week?? It's not even a real relationship, this guy probably just wants to bone her, it's not "love" love....so really, stay away from this, I can only sense betrayal, lies and deception from here....please, be wise about this...DUMP HIM.

How do I get over a friend who passed away?

My friend died suddenly out of nowhere while on a cruise. He wasn't even supposed to be on that stupid boat until he won the tickets on a card game. We couldn't have a decent funeral for him because his body was never found in the Atlantic. Anyways, I miss Jack and I was wondering if anyone has any advice how I can get over this.






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First of all, it's okay to cry because it only shows that you're human...the way i got over death, is i worked myself really hard, I don't want someone like you to do that because it ruins you...anyways try reading, and instead of thinking of the negative, think how your friend is doing, he's in heaven, i hope this helps...live your life....





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Death, isnt something you can just get over. Just give it time. Allow yourself to feel. Listen to some sad songs and just take time. I'm sorry about ur friend.





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Actually, I'm pretty sure he made it out alive. I saw him in The Departed.

Cruise Question!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!…

So I'm going on a cruise in a month with a group of friends/ my bf was invited&i even told him i would pay for his ticket..but he chose not to go because.he had school, which i understood, but i still begged him to go because I really wanted him to come. So I'm going without him, which I dont think there is anything wrong with. I've never been on a spring break before,he;'s been to cozmel mexico for his spring break with his brother.(While we were together) Anyway, he is furious that I'm going.. telling me its disrespectful on my part&i shouldnt be doing this to him. I'm not going to cheat, so i really dont see what the problem is. He actually expects me not to drink while I'm on this cruise&will probly make me feel like **** if i do. He also told me that if I get raped, it will be my fault&i deserve it. Needless to say, I'm so offended. Do you think he's overreacting? Is it wrong for me to go on a cruise with my friends w/out him?






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Go on the cruise--do not wander off alone and stop worrying about what anyone else-including the bf thinks. I travel without my husband at times, because I am the owner of a cruise travel agency. Respect and trust should be cornerstones of your relationship. If you feel that you are being dictated to or not receiving respect--perhaps it is time to re-evaluate your relationship.
Cruising is a great way for singles to see the world and meet new friends. It offers opportunities that you would not have on a land vacation. You will meet friends at dinner and in the public areas. Do not let anyone take away your freedom to have fun.
I book many wedding cruises every month. I book family and friend getaways--you are not the only person to ever have this question--but interestingly, it is always asked by women-never men.






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Loose this guy. Its not just the fact that he's jealous, but it's how he relays that to you that is alarming. Can you imagine what his reaction would be if you were married. You invited him to go, he said no. You are allowed to have friends and you are allowed to enjoy yourself. Enjoy your cruise. And by the way you can drink A LOT of booze on the boat without getting drunk. Has something to do with being at sea level.






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This is a selfish, controlling, angry, mean-spirited man, and those are the ones likely to become physically abusive. Dump him now and have a wonderful cruise!






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You need to drop that jerk and find a good man. He is simpley being an *ss. And to say that if you get raped its your fault. That's not the kinda of guy you want.






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OMFG he is acting so pathetic it makes me sick to even read this! You should seriously dump his ***. I mean, for him not to be happy for you to go and enjoy yourself is just downright immature. Also, for him to bring up the chance of you possibly getting raped is just sick, he literally doesn't have a sensible bone in his body. If I were you I would find a new man and take him. Someone who will enjoy that wonderful experience with you. Or take another friend--drink and have fun like it is your last days on earth. Not many people get the chance to go on a wonderful cruise like you. F it....

How do I get around not being able to take my child on vacation?

I am suppose to go on vacation (a cruise) with my daughter and the ticket are already paid for. I've heard that I have to have a notarized statement from her father, and he a refusing to do that out of spite. Is there a way to get around this legally.




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I'm not too familiar with this but my parents also got a divorce,anyways if you have custody of your daughter then I don't see why you can't just take her anyways.Now if its joint custody I really don't know.




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file for custody. If you already have a custody agreement, file a petition to modify the order so that it specifically states that you can take the child on a cruise. In New YOrk this is done in Family Court and there are no filing fees.