Cruise Question!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!…

So I'm going on a cruise in a month with a group of friends/ my bf was invited&i even told him i would pay for his ticket..but he chose not to go because.he had school, which i understood, but i still begged him to go because I really wanted him to come. So I'm going without him, which I dont think there is anything wrong with. I've never been on a spring break before,he;'s been to cozmel mexico for his spring break with his brother.(While we were together) Anyway, he is furious that I'm going.. telling me its disrespectful on my part&i shouldnt be doing this to him. I'm not going to cheat, so i really dont see what the problem is. He actually expects me not to drink while I'm on this cruise&will probly make me feel like **** if i do. He also told me that if I get raped, it will be my fault&i deserve it. Needless to say, I'm so offended. Do you think he's overreacting? Is it wrong for me to go on a cruise with my friends w/out him?






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Go on the cruise--do not wander off alone and stop worrying about what anyone else-including the bf thinks. I travel without my husband at times, because I am the owner of a cruise travel agency. Respect and trust should be cornerstones of your relationship. If you feel that you are being dictated to or not receiving respect--perhaps it is time to re-evaluate your relationship.
Cruising is a great way for singles to see the world and meet new friends. It offers opportunities that you would not have on a land vacation. You will meet friends at dinner and in the public areas. Do not let anyone take away your freedom to have fun.
I book many wedding cruises every month. I book family and friend getaways--you are not the only person to ever have this question--but interestingly, it is always asked by women-never men.






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Loose this guy. Its not just the fact that he's jealous, but it's how he relays that to you that is alarming. Can you imagine what his reaction would be if you were married. You invited him to go, he said no. You are allowed to have friends and you are allowed to enjoy yourself. Enjoy your cruise. And by the way you can drink A LOT of booze on the boat without getting drunk. Has something to do with being at sea level.






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This is a selfish, controlling, angry, mean-spirited man, and those are the ones likely to become physically abusive. Dump him now and have a wonderful cruise!






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You need to drop that jerk and find a good man. He is simpley being an *ss. And to say that if you get raped its your fault. That's not the kinda of guy you want.






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OMFG he is acting so pathetic it makes me sick to even read this! You should seriously dump his ***. I mean, for him not to be happy for you to go and enjoy yourself is just downright immature. Also, for him to bring up the chance of you possibly getting raped is just sick, he literally doesn't have a sensible bone in his body. If I were you I would find a new man and take him. Someone who will enjoy that wonderful experience with you. Or take another friend--drink and have fun like it is your last days on earth. Not many people get the chance to go on a wonderful cruise like you. F it....