Do you think my boyfriend still has feelings for his ex?

Do you think my boyfriend still has feelings for his ex?
My boyfriend dated a girl he met on a cruise. They separated once the cruise ended. My bf and I live in Ohio and him and his ex still talk on the phone like she'll call him and such. She does have a boyfriend tho. My boyfriend keeps telling me he's going to buy plane tickets and fly over to Arizona for a week to visit her and her family for her birthday. He saids her family loves him, and he might go to college in Arizona to "be close to her" Do you think he'd cheat on me when he's gone for a week with her? But he said she's just an amazing friend, and maybe he's just bein a good guy to visit her. like keeping in touch.. my boyfriend and i have been dating for almost a month but he has not said "i love you" he saids i love everything about you, and that he's happy with me, blessed to have me, and he wishes he would have met me sooner, he wants me to be his longest relationship and even mentioned marriage brieftly.. but its just this ex of his that makes me worried.. exspecially if he goes to college down in arizona






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From what your saying it sound obvious to me as a 28 year old guy that he likes her. That doesn't mean he doesn't like you too, it is entirely possible to like both. But if he is considering going to college to be closer to her which would mean further from you..uh..I think there is your answer right there. He is probably just a young, fickle dude, especially if he is thinking about packing up and moving for some chick that hooked up with while on a cruise for a few days. You both will probably end up with different people in the next few years. You will probably find someone you like even better. I know that is not a pleasant thought, but I am just telling you the likely scenario from what I have seen over and over again. Don't put too much stock in this particular relationship. Go have fun while you still can.





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Well if he says he loves you then his not going to cheat on you but then again it makes me think why does he want to go to arizona for college he could go there in ohio. I don't know i used to have a boyfriend a long time ago he used to tell me the same thing in i believed him and he ended up breaking up with me so i don't know what to tell you...if he really loves you and want to be with you in get married he wouldn't want to leave you or especially far away from you.






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Honey....re-read your question and think logically.....why are you even with this guy?? I cant believe he told you all of this! YES, he will cheat on you and YES he's planning on seeing her again and quite possibly just having you as his "local girlfriend".....he's taking you for a fool!! But I'm sorry honey, he met her on a cruise?? How long did that last, 1 week?? It's not even a real relationship, this guy probably just wants to bone her, it's not "love" love....so really, stay away from this, I can only sense betrayal, lies and deception from here....please, be wise about this...DUMP HIM.